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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I kicked him out because he went outside to be interviewed. I heard the police say to him: "The police in X state have been trying to get a hold of you to no avail." He asked me to close the window so I couldn't overhear. That made me suspicious.

His friend disclosed to him last week that he had been swabbed. He's known for a week that his co-workers were being swabbed. He neglected to tell me.

To me, that seems like guilty behavior. [/quote]

OP, I was leaning toward disagreeing with your decision until I read this. Now I'm on your side and think you did the right thing kicking him out. If he's guilty, no brainer, end of marriage. If he's not guilty, it still means that he knew what was going on, knew he'd been accused, knew they were looking for him, and still tried to keep it a secret from you. That's not protecting you, because it left you completely blindsided when it finally caught up to him. Protecting you would be telling you in advance so you could prepare yourself. Be married means you are a team, you share the good and bad, and you support each other. None of his behavior in this suggests he views you this way, or that he's someone you can trust down the road when things get tough.

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