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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if this guy is guilty or innocent. But I do know that if I was falsely accused of a crime, and my spouse kicked me out of the house, I wouldn't be coming back. Maybe you had a good reason to suspect he's guilty, but that's definitely a bridge burner. Time to start talking to a divorce lawyer and get ready to be single.[/quote]

I'd have to agree.
That's some cold-hearted shizzle to kick somebody out the house and tell em don't come back until they're cleared.

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NP here. I generally agree with these sentiments EXCEPT that the DH clearly tried to evade telling his wife anything about the incident. If DH had come to DW as soon as he heard that others were getting swabbed and explained what was going on, then I would side with DH. But him deliberately keeping her out of the loop, without explanation? Nope, not having it. [/quote]

It is equally possible that he said nothing because OP has a tendency to assume the worst and freak out.  She would leap to the conclusion that he was guilty and there would be no explanation or discussion possible.

The women here have immediately concluded that at a MINIMUM he cheated.  Without knowing a single fact.  Simply on the basis of what OP has said.[/quote]

No, based on what she said, which includes a collection of facts -- he didn't respond to police inquiries, he kept the existence of the investigation from her, he asked her not to listen when the police tracked him down.  The fact that so many people are being accused actually would make it seem less likely he did it, except he was hiding the entire investigation from her.  The accusation is startling, his reaction is suspicious.

And not for nothing, but OP lives with him, and her reaction was "get far away from me."  I don't know this guy, and neither do you.  But if my husband was accused my reaction would be "how on earth could she confuse you with whoever did this?  Hope the lab turns this around quickly."  The reaction of his wife should tell you something.[/quote]

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