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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I knew someone on DCUM would argue that "expecting" reciprocation is selfish or needy or greedy or rude(!). The real answer, OP, is that far too many people today simply expect you to entertain them. It never occurs to them to reciprocate because -- hey! they're busy! You're obviously not.[/quote] I host a lot and maybe expect reciprocation maybe 25% of the time. I have a low bar. If I invite you over 4x and you don't invite me even once, I assume you don't want to be friends and you don't enjoy my company or my kid's. [/quote]
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