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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine going through someone else's old saved letters and photos and just throwing it all away without consulting them first. I would be furious if someone did that to me.[/quote]

It all depends.  My dh's ex gf harassed us for sometime when we got together and after we got married. I tossed everything with her photo.

On the other hand when you get married no need to keep exes photo etc. around imo. [/quote]

Certainly, if his ex harassed you guys, I understand not wanting anything reminding you of her and that experience. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with keeping photos/mementos/whatever of your life experiences, including old flames. I think if someone insists that their partner trash all the photos from their past that include an ex, that's unhealthy and controlling.[/quote]

It's also unhealthy for someone to keep all that. My dh has a few not so admirable women that I wouldn't want me kids to see. When you get married it's time to move forward and clean house.[/quote]

PP here. Agree to disagree on that point. To me, if a couple is secure in their relationship, there shouldn't be a need to purge all evidence of prior relationships.[/quote]

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