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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For 6 months take the view, along with your spouse, that Divorce Is Not An Option. 
Get joint counseling on how to communicate together, run the household together, love each other again. Start from scratch. 
The men shouldn't think by planning a dinner date they have rekindled anything - unless there is serious talking and progress made over dinner. And then women shouldn't assume bad intentions all the time, try to clear the slate.

Finally, this catch-all excuse for divorce really peeves psychologists. "Different personalities" . Duh, everyone has different personalities. You BOTH adapt, you both try to please the other person, you BOTH put your spouse and children before you and your career, and you learn how to communicate and be effective with your spouse and each child you have. You don't cop out and claim "different personalities, I quit" every time you need to work through something with someone. 
Marriage is not easy, sorry if you were brought up to think that it was. It never has been. It's work, of various amounts. Go do it.[/quote]

worth a shot. [/quote]

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