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Well, I'm not sure if OP should divorce based on the information she provided here. But I am a divorced person and I want to say that no step children hate me. My beau has no ex from hell. I have no money problems. My children are thriving. My life is not perfect. No one's life is perfect. But I live a wonderful life now, putting myself and my children first now. 
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If you divorced, then by definition you did not put your kids first, you put YOURSELF first, you narcissistic creep.

Unless, of course, your ex was actually beating them, which I doubt.

And in any case, the OP does not say her husband is doing anything abusive, so divorce would not be "putting the kids first".[/quote]

I don't get it.  Everyone who has kids and gets a divorce is a narcissistic creep?  It seems that the hostility towards a decision that lots of couples make seems a over-the-top on this thread.  My guess is it's primarily coming from the same poster since I can't imagine so many people are so unhinged.  [b]I know quite a few adults whose parents divorced when they were children and who weren't traumatized or found it to be a huge relief. [/b] [/quote]

Uh huh. I am the adult child of divorce, and I haven't told anyone, except my therapist, about the lifelong pain and psychological trauma it caused me. Why do you think every child of divorce would unburden their inner demons to you?

No, "everyone" with kids who divorces is not a narcissistic creep, but the vast majority of them are. Especially the ones who divorced due to vague feelings of unhappiness and dissatisfaction.[/quote]

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