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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for being honest and expressing your feelings.  Reading your post made me think about my husband and how often I focused on the negative and hardly ever thought about the positive.  My husband and I have been married for 14 years with three kids but we are now separated.  Our sex life was always great, I had no complaints at all.  I miss being intimate with him on a level that is more than just physical but spiritual, emotional, etc. The fact that you have a husband who bought a book to try to improve his technique says a lot.  My husband had an affair and even though I am not responsible for his actions, I know I did not respect him, show him appreciation for the things he did, or value him.  How lucky you are if this is the only area in your marriage that you are having trouble in.  The fact that he still wants to have sex with you is great.  Try to compliment him on the things he does well.  I’ve read it somewhere to treat your spouse the way you want to be treated and often it is reciprocated (this will take time). I’m not saying you shouldn’t have a fulfilling sex life, I’m saying to be patient, loving, and understanding with him.  There may be things in his past or things about himself that he doesn’t feel comfortable telling you.  [/quote]

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