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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you make marriage vows? If so, what were they? [/quote]

This is not quite fair.  The standard vows "love, honor,...[the obey one is not one everyone does" goes both ways.  If you have a spouse who has disregarded their vows of love and honor, how do expect the other party to continuously move forward as if the deal was not broken.  For as long as you both shall live?  Under that premise, one party can treat the other like crap - do whatever - and it doesn't matter.

I am on the edge and taking a long time to think about what I need to do. I have supported my spouse through rough times, including major depression, acting out and mid-life crises.  I have been there through the bad and the sick.  At some point, I need to get through my day without the anxiety of a fight or expecting some negative comment for whatever crap I will accidentally do to step in it.  What I don't need is the judgment and guilt that I somehow didn't hold up my end of the bargain or am damaged goods from folks that haven't lived through a decade of negativity. [/quote]

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