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[quote=Anonymous]All situations like this arise from a desperate lack of self esteem on the woman's part. We accept the love we think we deserve. I notice fantastic women who can get any guy they want end up with losers and average women marrying rich alpha men just based on their inner confidence and self worth.

I have two friends who are of comparable hotness. One has massive self esteem issues due to an emotionally and physically abusive family and the other has a very high self esteem due to being coddled by her loving and indulgent parents. The one with the low self esteem purposefully picks the guys she herself describes as "loserish" because she thinks she can mold him into who she wants him to be. The guys she REALLY wants shes terrified of because she thinks they're out of her league and will reject her anyway.

The other friend doesn't suffer fools and gives no guy the time of day unless they go out of the way and clearly demonstrate sincere interest and affection. She also has a high list of requirements her guy should meet. She says " I am awesome and I need to end up with someone awesome too!" He must have a good interesting high paid job. He must come from a nice well to do family. He must be preppy and privately educated etc etc.

She has been dating a Wharton MBA grad for 2 years very very happily.

Its all about confidence and standards.[/quote]

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