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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jumping in here. When you say bad things about his family you are saying bad things about him. Yeah, that hurts. Don't do it. You don't have to like them. Or get along with them. Or even see them. But don't talk bad about them.

How would you feel if your  DH said bad things about your mom, who you love. You would feel crappy. And you are putting him in the impossible position of having to choose you over his mom. His mom! He is half of her.

Makes me nervous that you think it is OK to talk her down.[/quote]

This.  My sister can be very annoying.  Dh doesn't really like her.  I get that, but he doesn't have to say it to me.  I don't expect them to spend time together, but I don't want to hear from dh that he doesn't like her.  He can vent to his brother or his friends about it, not me.  [/quote]

But if the IL is specifically attacking -- not just being annoying, but specifically targeting -- the spouse, the person whose relative it is needs to speak up about it.[/quote]

The op NEVER used the words attack/attacking, shee said the MIL never warmed up to her & has hurt her feelings.

I also vote now with the multitude of people who believe that this is the very same poster from this thread (which is probably why the op STILL hasn't returned after her initial post, even though we're 5 pages in).

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/641919.page[/quote]

+1000

Self centered writing  styles are almost identical. [/quote]

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