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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should bring this up with the therapist to make sure you heard her right. Obviously, it's legitimate for your husband to feel hurt if he feels like you dislike his family (whether or not your dislike is justifiable.) Also it's not "throwing you under the bus" to tell your therapist how he feels about it! It's a perfectly acceptable thing to say in therapy, and in fact is what he should be talking about. That said, obviously you should be allowed to talk about your feelings as well. [/quote] Also, from what you wrote 1. DH beat you to the punch by introducing the issue from his perspective, and 2. the therapist made a blanket statement without hearing your side. She should have asked you, "Do you have issues with your MIL?" or "How does it feel to hear your DH say this?" "What's your take on what DH just said?" or some such thing. Bad therapist.[/quote]
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