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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have a new therapist we go to discuss issues we have been having. One of them is that I find his family hard to deal with. My MIL has never warmed up to me and she has the tendency to be a little out there. My DH, when I tell him about instances where she hurts my feelings, tells me I am not allowed to say bad things about his mom as that hurts his feelings. I feel frustrated because DH gets his feelings cared for, my MIL earns her respect and I get nothing. No one is caring for MY feelings.

When we went to our last appointment, my DH threw me under the bus and said I talk about his mom negatively and that hurts his feelings. Our therapist said that I am not allowed in any circumstances to talk negatively about his family as to him they will always be important and wonderful.

I was kind of confused...what am I supposed to do?[/quote]

Therapist was right. Stop dissing his mom. You seriously think any man wants to hear that? It's certainly not going to achieve anything positive.

"I get nothing. No one is caring for MY feelings."

GROW UP.

Act like an adult, not like a 5 year old who had her fee-fees hurt.[/quote]

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