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Reply to "DH Cannot Handle Two Kids. How do you know when leaving is the right move?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, everything you describe about him--your having to walk on eggshells; short tempered and grouchy; sleeping all the time; not being consistent with taking his meds; only finding pleasure in activities (golf) he feels like doing--all point to a depressed spouse who is not really able to see how he is hurting you and neglecting your family. In this depressed state, he is incapable--without finding a better course of treatment that more effectively addresses his depression--of making much progress towards being the husband you need for the long haul. It might get better someday, if he gets proper medical help, but otherwise, the situation will not improve on its own. I'm sorry, but that is the reality of living with a depressed spouse unless he seeks help. Otherwise, you will eventually tire of the constant stress of living with someone who ignores an illness which left untreated will continue to sap whatever life is left from your relationship.[/quote]
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