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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]*sigh* well I'm sure he'll text me tomorrow so I'll let him know I have a child. That will be the end of the date before it starts.[/quote]

At this point, I would just wait until you're on the sate and casually mention something about your child. Making an announcement about it via text message seems strange. However. I think your whole attitude is off. Your child is part of your package, just like your height, weight, and eye color. Yiu can't change any of it, and it's only your perspective that thinks of it as a liability and not an asset. I you think this guy won't date you because you have a child, why even go on a date? It's a waste of time.

I'm 36 yo woman with a 9 year old son and in an amazing 2 year relationship with a man I met online. He knew I had a child before our first date. It wasn't a deal breaker. For the right guy, your child won't be a deal breaker. If this guy isn't interested, he's not the right one for you.

You're letting a man (and trolls on this board) influence your self esteem. You are a catch wuth or without a child. Start acting like one.[/quote]

If we met online, I would've made it known that I have a child, but we met at work. Passed by him a few times and maybe said hello a few times before having a conversation. I didnt think he would ask me out, so I never really gave him that much information about me. [/quote]

Do you realize how ridiculous you sound? You sound like a teenager. You know literally nothing about him yet you're on here acting like your child is such a burden to your dating life. Oh, you wanted this totally hot guy to ask you out? "OMG I REALLY HOPE HE LIKES MEEE!! Heehee!" Sorry honey, your child should be your first priority. NOT a burden with Mr. Quarterback that you crush on in the halls at school. Pull yourself together and ACT like the 37 year old mother that you are. [/quote]

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