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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The few people who are trying to get you to rationalize why he lied, as if the reasons matter, are missing the point. This is a person who handles his uncomfortable issues and situations by lying. And then he elaborates and lives out that lie. It's not a thing where, on the spot, he panicked and lied, and then came clean. Lying is a way of life. From long experience, I assure you this is coping strategy he will use again and again. [/quote]

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He is showing you how he deals with uncomfortable situations--he lies. My friend bought a house and had a child with a guy like this. When he felt uncomfortable, he lied. Turns out, he didn't want to buy a house with her or have a kid. But he want able to have an uncomfortable conversation, so he just went along with it. Until he started cheating, not paying the bills and buying his mistress thousands of $$$ in stripper shoes.

Do not marry someone who is not able to truthfully have uncomfortable conversations! [/quote]

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