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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Umm, there's another set of grandparents who could've taken those kids for 2 days. And they, btw, offered to take them, only for SIL to throw a tantrum "I don't go anywhere without my children." No one else had an issue. People found a way and those who couldn't, politely declined. [b]They didn't send me e-mails the night before my wedding telling me how selfish I was, how I would die alone, bla-bla-bla.[/b] [/quote] Wait... what? The did send you the emails or they didn't send you the emails? I was on your side OP, but I'm starting to agree with other people & think you have a very skewed perception of what happened. So what that your SIL doesn't travel anywhere without her kids, a LOT of moms have a great of something happening to them or the kids while she's away. You of all people I'd think would understand this now, especially being a new mother. Maybe you wouldn't have comprehended it then, as you didn't have children of your own. However, I think your heels are so dug in now with this bitterness, you can't see the forest for the trees. Can you honestly say you'd be fine leaving your child to go away to a wedding? Now times that anxiety you'd feel by 3. Your anger & sanctimonious judgment after six years is still absolutely PALPABLE, so I'm not sure why you even posted this? You're right, they're wrong & that's the ONLY responses you'll accept.[/quote]
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