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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the OP. He has made me feel cheap in that I want sex and that I have a serious problem. I am pretty upset.[/quote]

Previous male PP. Very understandable that you're upset.

Try to appreciate that a low T man simply does not "get" normal sexual desire. Sex is not something he absolutely needs like he needs oxygen (or like a normal man needs it). It's like you're trying to convince a fish that he needs to fly a plane. He just can't see the need for it or why he should want to do it. This is no reflection on you or your attractiveness, he's just not getting the right chemicals in his brain to fire up his libido.

[i]But [/i]as I said, this can be changed if he wants to. If he goes on TRT then you'll get all the sex you want, and maybe even more.

Ignore all the "he must be gay" nonsense. Gay men are not low T. Just the opposite in many cases.[/quote]

What's got you overreacting here, PP? Any man can be low T. It's a medical condition. Gay men get low T too. And the question was simply asked about his possible sexual preference because it's one of the things you need to consider when a man refuses to have sex with a woman.

I didn't see anyone insisting he's gay or that she should force herself on him, as your overwrought posts suggest. She should give it some thought, and discuss the subject with him. He's most likely straight, low T, and so freaked out by it all that he's avoiding dealing with it in any way. But if she never took the time to consider more possibilities, and he did turn out to be gay, she'd be wasting her time trying to make things work with him. They both deserve to be more happy than they are now.[/quote]

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