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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perfectly normal. You will actually benefit more from this friendship down the road than he will. Think about it, when you have an issue with him and need to seek advice outside your marriage, you will seek a one of your good friends. When he does this, he will get a female perspective rather than the male caveman perspective.

It's fine. Don't sweat it. The more you sweat it, the bigger the issue will become in your relationship.[/quote]

No, its not perfectly normal. A married man shouldn't communicating with another woman (besides his wife) multiple times a day and texting at night. He's talking with her daily on his way to work? WTF.  He is having an emotional affair. Frankly you should have addressed this while you were still dating.

Assuming it would suddenly stop once you got married was a foolish thought.  He is putting time and energy into this woman, and not you, his wife. And just wait - once you DH start having issues...who do you think he'll run to for comfort and consoling?....Talk to him about it now. He may gaslight you and say you are paranoid. He may ask why you didn't bring it up while you were still dating....nevertheless, it needs to be addressed and he needs to scale it way back out of respect for you. What he is doing is disrespectful to you and your marriage.[/quote]

No wonder you drove your husband away. Sorry things didn't work out but now you know why.[/quote]

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