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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can control yourself, not other people. So focus on what YOU can do in this situation.[/quote] That's what I want to do. Do you have any suggestions on how to do this? Meditation? Mindfulness? Writing out my frustrations on paper and then throwing them in the ocean?[/quote] No. You are resentful because you have set no boundaries and then are taken advantage of. Surely this must happen in other areas of your life? [/quote] Actually, I would say this is not the case. I'm generally pretty firm about setting boundaries (for example, I leave work at a certain hour because I have to get home at a certain time because of child care, even though my boss can be a jerk about it). I have not felt taken advantage of in any other scenario in my life (at least not to the extent that it bothered me), so that's why I'm having a hard time dealing with this.[/quote]
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