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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like everyone else is comfortable with ILs footing the bill. You want to pay for yourself, but SIL does not. You can either pay for her too, or let the ILs do it. It is what it is. But, if you can't get zen about it you could have your husband contact SIL and try the "hey, let's buy the groceries and split the cost as a thank you to mom and dad" approach. She might be guilted into doing it, or, more likely, she will refuse and then you can make a point of mentioning what you've done (bought all the groceries as a thank you) to your ILs in front of her. This will bother her, because she will look cheap because she is cheap. If she confronts you, just play innocent. That will bother her more. You're welcome.[/quote]
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