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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sex life, there is none.  My wife has pretty much stopped having sex [b]with me[/b] and when we do it sucks [b]because I am unattractive to her[/b].  I am starting to think that she has some real negative associations [b]with sex with men like me to whom she is not attracted[/b].  Won't let me give oral, only likes sex in one position, has to be a regimented approach to it.  I have asked her about it but she says that its "just the way she is [b]with you[/b]".  In retrospect it was always kind of like that after the first few months off good, hot sex, but I thought it was just kind of a random thing [b]not at all associated with me degenerating into a boring beta provider[/b]......until I found this forum looking for daycare options for my kids :)  We are good parents and roomates but at this point I don't really think of her like my wife.  Any conversation around sex escalates into her crying and saying she is a bad wife [b]because she cannot force herself to be attracted to a boring unattractive man[/b].  I am one time away from saying yep, you are.  FYI we have three children under 3 so yes, I am a very involved husband in rearing and housework simply becuase there is no choice, but her behavior pre-dated the kids so that's not it.  Otherwise its a great marriage.[/quote]

FIFY

Your problem: she is not attracted to you
Your solution: be more attractive[/quote]

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