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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have a great marriage but I would say that my main issue is not getting enough sleep. DH just can't go to sleep before midnight. And 7 hours isn't enough for me. I've been struggling since the baby was born. And even when he comes to bed at midnight, he is on his phone for another 30 min or so.[/quote]

You're choosing to not get sleep.  You need to sleep train ASAP.  [/quote]

huh? Baby sttn. DH wakes me up when he comes to bed and when he's brushing his teeth. DH is pretty sleep deprived too, he just won't go to bed.[/quote]

He should brush teeth/get ready for bed elsewhere (kitchen? guest bath?) and be very quiet getting into bed. If that doesn't work, consider earplugs or separate beds. If he's a night owl it's not fair to ask him to go to bed early just because you prefer an earlier bedtime.  I often have to work late, so I usually go to bed at least an hour later than DH; I've become very good at sliding into bed without waking him and keep a spare toothbrush, etc. downstairs to minimize noise. If DH insisted that I go to bed at the same time he does, THAT would be a problem for our marriage.[/quote]

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