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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I agree with PP's advice to enter family therapy. It seems from your original post that it's not really your fiancé but the fact that the boys are hoping you'll get back with their dad. It's been four years so hopefully a good therapist can help the kids with this transition. Their dad may want to re-marry one day as well.[/quote] I wonder if it's really that. Getting back with dad is a safe answer for them, it's understandable and elicits some sympathy and will not cause blowback. If they tell her the real reason (boyfriend poops in the fridge?) she will just turn around and tell her man, and then things will be way worse than they are now. Pretending to like the boyfriend is the easiest path, they gain nothing from saying more.[/quote]
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