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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^Exactly. I'm the female pp who ended an affair 3 years ago. "Turned my life around" is the perfect way of putting it. I would never again have an affair and the last thing I'd want is for my old AP to contact me, as much as he meant to me. I'm a different person than I was three years ago and I'm mortified whenever I think about my actions from those days.[/quote]

Same. Exactly same. My affair never got physical but it was definitely intense, and I've learned, changed and grown a lot since then. With some healthy distance I realized what was missing in my life that caused me to go down that road, and I've taken charge of my shit and made changes. My husband and I have gone down a long tough road to work on our marriage, but we're doing well these days. I will never go down that road again, and while occasionally he will pop into my head I certainly have no desire to reconnect and I would be very unhappy with him if he contacted me. I too would describe myself as a different person than 4 years ago, and if he contacted me my basic message would be to tell him to get his head out of his a$$. Don't. [/quote]

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