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When people do not want to have sex with each other it is because they do not have physical attraction towards each other.    Having sex is like eating the best chocolate icecream...it is a lovely indulgence that is amazingly pleasurable and you do not need to carve out any special time to have it.    But what if you are allergic to chocolate or are diabetic or have sensitive teeth?   Should the OP not also be craving sex with her husband if he has been gone for a few days?  Men who are not getting sex at home need to face that their wives are not into them.

- Very happily married DW

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Man here, I agree with this.  I have to acknowledge this, even though I am in the shoes of the OP's husband, who is either rejected, or more likely, not rejected because I am not so dumb as to think sex would be on the table when I get home from business.  Or work, or anything other than vacation, and then only after a day for her to recharge, and then only once or twice.

Problem - what to do?  Subsist in a low-sex marriage?  Better than divorce, sure.  Get sex elsewhere?  BTDT, it's fun, it's also amazing to finally know the problem isn't "me."

In a perfect world, DW would allow the marriage to be open.[/quote]

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