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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get the feeling a lot of the women here have done this, simply to attain the goal of having children. It's sad. It's. It what marriage should be. Call me crazy, but I think you should adore and be crazy about your spouse. Children should come as an offshoot of that crazy love. The spouse shouldn't simply be a means to an end. [/quote]

I never wanted to have kids. I got married to my DH because I was tired of dating people, getting to know their families and friends and then breaking up and seeing none of them again. My DH and I had been friends for 5 years already and I realized that I would not like not seeing him anymore. We started dating and things were just fine (good  sex, his family wasn't crazier than mine) and then we got married. 30 years later after much 'stuff' I probably love him more than at the beginning even. He's thrown a lot of crap my way over the years but overall he's a great great guy and I enjoy his company immensely.  I also got lucky.[/quote]

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