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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Red flag: turns off his phone or temper tantrums away instead of discussing things that need resolution. Even after he or I cool off the conflict would never get spoken about or resolved.[/quote] I am currently dating a guy like this, and even though I really like him, I see this as a big red flag. He avoids all conflict, at all costs, even though he is the source of the conflict. Sounds like I should just go ahead and cut him loose.[/quote] I would either confront him about your need to be with someone who can communicate, talk about issues and resolve conflicts, or just recognize a toxic pattern and cut bait. In my case, my husband never learned how to discuss life or problems because his parents never did either, they all just brush things under the rug and then someone explodes every couple months. He's also passive aggressive, goes hand in hand with zero conflict resolution skills. [/quote]
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