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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your wife was posting, this is why I would recommend her NOT to get other family members involved in your marriage business.  Makes it harder to stay and plug away at fixing the marriage.

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Op here. I completely agree and wish that they hadn't been involved at all. Not because I am looking for the easy way out, but I think my wife really wants to salvage things and now the involvement of her family is making things much harder for her because they all hate me so much. But it is what it is. [/quote]

I couldn't stand my friend's husband because he lied to her while they were dating about (not) living with another woman. It took me about 5 years to see he was totally committed to her so I finally forgave him and don't think he will hurt her.

It's her right to talk to her family, who are her support network at a VERY difficult time.  I would advise being more worried about deserving HER trust than anything else.  Also, are you sure the affair was only emotional or was it only the emotional part that she found proof of?[/quote]

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