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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thanks for all the great tips and watch outs.  Can I just ask another secondary question about your good guy?  Is he good looking too?  Is it too much to hope for both?  I don't need (or want) Brad Pitt.  I'd take a guy whose looks became more endearing over time once his personality shone through.   Too good looking makes me nervous anyway... especially if he shows signs of being vain.[/quote]

How about instead of good looking - physical chemistry exists....same kind of thing, but more flexibility exists there.[/quote]

I agree.  Chemistry is what's most important!

I think the other thing about "good looking" is that we all have different ideas about that and "types" that we're attracted to.  Focus on how you feel -- are you attracted to him -- rather than what anyone else thinks.

Here's an example -- a friend of mine was always really unhappy with the guys she dated.  She never went for the cute boy next door type -- she always held out for the kind of guy that everyone else in the room would think is very hot.  Unfortunately, the guys all sucked.  Not necessarily because they were hot, but because she was was picking only based on looks and wasn't screening out the bad personalities.  Fast forward a few years, and she's now happily married to a cute guy.  He's not an "everyone else in the room thinks he's super hot" kind of guy, but he's cute and she's definitely attracted to him.  PLUS he has a great personality and kills himself to make her happy.  Happy ending!

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