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[quote=LoriCroit][i]I am so sorry you are having this happen in your marriage. Everyone’s marriage changes and evolves as the years pass, hopefully growing closer, firmly uniting and bonding. Sometimes it isn’t 50/50 and takes a lot more work than you ever dreamed of. It sounds as if you are struggling to keep what you have and have listed a lot of details and concerns for your relationship.

Is there any way possible that the two of you could sit down and discuss all these concerns, face to face, when your daughter is not around? One of the weekends he comes home, could you take a good portion of the day, and plan a meal, even a picnic, just the two of you, to spend time where you can talk about all these issues, all the way from not being at home much, to his “lady friends”, the time with you both spend with your daughter, yours and his feelings, and your future.. Just lay it all out there, honest and open and talk about how your love once was, through the birth of your daughter and how it is now.

It sounds like the two of you have not had any serious conversations since your daughter was born, perhaps it’s time for one now. It might be a new start, or at least a way to get things all out in person so you know where you are headed.

If he is open to sitting down and talking, that is the first step. After that, there are all kinds of counselors out there that might help bring the two of you closer together.

I will be thinking about you and praying for the very best.[/i]
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