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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband is an asshole, there are no ifs, ands, or buts.  Your lack of sex drive is no justification for his behavior.  Yes, you should divorce him.  Your are sacrificing self-respect and dignity in exchange for being taken care of financially.

Protect yourself and carefully plan your escape.  First and foremost -- get a full-time job so you can support yourself and your DD.  Do whatever else it takes to make the transition easier (e.g. rent an apartment, consult a lawyer, open your own bank account and start saving, etc.)  
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Actually the fact she has a low sex drive very much explains his behavior. So he's the asshole while SHE coasts on his income?[/quote]

NP. Yes, sweetie. She is not a prostitute, she is his wife. She is raising their daughter. Sex is not something you buy in a relationship. It is a mutual expression of love and desire. He deserves neither. Same with you, I suspect.[/quote]

Well he is definitely getting sex, just not from his wife.
So exactly what IS she doing to "deserve" him supporting her?[/quote]

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