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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you only have sex when your husband brought you home more money?? Am I reading this right??[/quote]

There's a reason it's the worlds oldest profession.[/quote]

This is such a ridiculous, sexist and mysognisic take on this.  I earned SIGNIFICANTLY more than he did before he lit a fire under his ass, and I still do. Many marriages, most even, go through times of tension where the sexual attraction is diminished due to conflict.  If anything it would have made me feel like more of a prostitute to have sex with someone to whom I was feeling ZERO attraction at the time.  I can't force myself to act on something I'm not feeling.  But that's me.  Feel free to lay back and do your "wifely duty" no matter how much conflict and resentment you feel toward your partner....because that's not like prostitution at all.[/quote]

You said that sex dried up because you were upset he wasn't bringing more money to the table but was clear from your post you felt that withholding sex was a good motivation to push him to make and provide more money. Your approach to sex is very transactional, and you were in fact the PP to bring up sex at all. You could have just said you were less attracted to him and even considering separation; instead you framed sex as an exchange/reward for more cash.  I was just trying to understand if that was the lesson to take from your example.

Have other wives had good results to motivate DH by withholding your 'wifely duties'?[/quote]

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