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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you doing for her? Have you talked to her about how you feel? Does she work, too? Any kids? [/quote]

He said he works, stays in shape, cooks, and feeds the kids. And, he initiates sex. If my wife was doing all that for me, I'd be ecstatic. [/quote]

What is he doing for her?  Working, cooking and feeding the kids are part of the family.  That's not for her.  Buying flowers and gifts.  Taking her out and fully planning it, including child care is for her.  Just sitting with her.  [/quote]

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Exactly, he gave a lot away right there. It was like he's doing her a big favor when those are equally his responsibilities. [/quote]

A study just came out showing that couples these days are having significantly less sex than older generations.

Men are doing way more household chores and child rearing than their fathers or grandfathers did. So being equal participants around the house has no correlation with sexual frequency. It may be that he has to step up and do more of the work outside of the house and she should do less if that's what it takes to recharge her sexual batteries. [/quote]

In fact, I think the 'choreplay' deal actually turns out opposite. Women lose sexual interest in a man that runs around the house in an apron. Prepare for the coming protestations...most women are more sexually attracted to gruff, outdoorsy men. Men who are men. They may choose a man for a mate who helps around the house, but that ain't who she wants to bang...This isn't a justification for a man not doing housework. It's just a reality. 
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