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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a guy here is a situation that happened to me the other day. I went and had a haircut, afterwards Dw asked me to send her a pic, so I did. She commented that she loves my smile and thought I looked sexy. I replied that a sexy pic from her would be nice to see and she sent a wink face back.
Few days later we are texting and I said didn't you say you were going to send me a selfie the other day? I then received this long reply on how she deserves to be loved and appreciated and not ogled. I said I wasn't looking for nudes figured a face shot like I sent her, but sorry I do love and appreciate you as I tell you this all the time, also when we are in bed together I do ogle at you.
The thing is she told me before with her old bf that one time she took a bunch of hard core pics of herself with an instant camera, met bf and his friend out and showed the pics to both of them then proceeded to go into the parking lot with them because bf asked if she wanted sex. So Im left thinking I can not even get a face shot of my wife, but the guy before me got all this, what is wrong with me? I am the guy she say she loves so much and take such good care of her (shes SAH) but some other guy got all the fun. It is a little upsetting on my end[/quote]

This obsession with getting exactly the same thing that everyone else has gotten is ridiculous. You feel that you "deserve" to get pretty face pictures of her because someone else got naked pictures? That's silly. She has the right to send or not send whatever pictures she wants. Would you still feel entitled to pretty face pictures if she hadn't sent other pictures to other people?

I think the part about how you take such good care of her so she should just give you whatever you want says a lot about where you're at.[/quote]

I think its weird when women describe their own husbands as "ogling" them and how that insults them. WTF?  A husband should think his wife is hot and want to look at her.  Its not insulting and I am total feminist.[/quote]

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