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[quote=Anonymous]I hear your concern for your husband and the situation with your past. From what you've shared, it sounds like your husband feels hurt that you were not completely open, honest, and truthful with him. Honesty, Truth, and openness are part of building a strong foundation in any relationship and marriage. It sounds like your husband expected you to be open and honest with him and when he found out you weren't, he felt betrayed. Truth is we all have made choices in the past that we would change if we could, however, we can't. We can only forgive ourselves, learn from them, and move on, having made many poor choices myself in the past. I acknowledge you that you truly want to make things right with your husband and asking for help when you weren't sure what to do.

Perhaps your husband just wants to feel heard by you or acknowledged that you are truly sorry for not sharing that part of your life with him. If so, maybe asking him to forgive you, genuinely with remorse, will help you to reconcile your relationship with him. Maybe it's best not to share the details of your past choices with him for the past is in the past. Instead, maybe you could share what you learned from that experience and how you've grown since that time in your life. Re-commit to him that from this point forward, you will do your best to be completely open, honest and truthful with him.

I hope this is helpful. 
Blessings to you and your husband and your marriage.[/quote]

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