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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you just walking away or are you saying, "I'm angry and I need some space."[/quote]

At the beginning of the relationship, i used to just shut down, then we talked abput it multiple times [b]when we are both sober[/b] and not angry, and I explained to him that when i need space or shut down when im angry, it has nothing to do with the relationship. Its about my incapacity to have a rational conversation when im in that state so i need a minute to process my thoughts, so now sometimes i tell him'give me some time or not now' and he will say' just give me 10 min, which turns into 20 min 30 min of just him talking, n me sitting there mute, n when its overwhelming i ask him to leave me alone and he refuses, he wants us to talk about it then n now. If im at work, he will text, if i dont respond he will call my cell, then my deskphonr, call back cell ect, 10+ missed calls from him in a row is not unusual[/quote]

Sounds like you might have an issue with alcohol too. Are you having these arguments when you're both drunk? No wonder no one is acting like a rational person.[/quote]

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