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Reply to "DH and I constantly fighting over child care - how do you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Us too. I do know someone else who calls it "childcare" when she is alone with the kids but they have more of an even split, no 2+ nights out per week alone plus long hours training on a bike. She also has issues about fairness and women being imposed on. That is separate from the fact that your DH's choices are not cool, OP. What if you presumed that 90% of child awake time in the evening and on weekends would be spent together as a family. Can you even imagine that in the context of your family? How many hours total does your husband spend exercising? How do you define the pool of time to be divided - do you get a bike offset or is it just what is left over when he doesn'y have a better plan for biking or happy hour? Actually divorced friends used to treat it that way. Being divorced works for them, time off/on is clearly delineated.[/quote]
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