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Reply to "DH and I constantly fighting over child care - how do you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I can appreciate the desire to have "me" time. I'm a parent, too, so I really do get it. Believe me when I say this, OP. You're preaching to the choir. I really get it. The bottom line, however, is that you and your husband are parents now. Free time is nice and all, but it is not something that is guaranteed and it is most certainly not something that is owed to you. You and your spouse have an obligation to raise your child first and foremost and nothing else can come before that. I'm sure you know that already, but here is something that maybe you don't know. You and your husband won't need to say to your child that he's resented if you both continue to put your own wants first. He'll be able to pick up on it through arguments and "me time" comments that aren't directed at him. Grow up.[/quote]
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