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Reply to "Is this ridiculous? DH and I disagree over whether to have another child"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also think it's unfair that he unilaterally gets to decide this major thing in our lives. I really really love being a mom to young kids. I'm not ready for this stage to be over. If we had another baby, it would be starting the clock over, like a PP mentioned. That's what I like about it. He doesn't even try to understand it from my perspective. [/quote] Your perspective really isn't valid, though. So, there's that.[/quote] If that's OP I wouldn't say her opinion isn't valid, just that it doesn't carry the same weight. It's fine to want another baby but we're not talking about changing the color of the bathroom, where it doesn't really matter if one person isn't into it and minds and colors can change - the DH is clearly saying he DOES NOT want to father or parent a 4th. He DOES get to decide that unilaterally OP, just as you would if you did not want a 4th and he did.[/quote]
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