Reply to Is it cheating to have a conference husband?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Is it cheating to have a conference husband?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do the add your spouse test - if adding DH to any of the scenarios you're asking about would make things awkward, then it's prob not a scenario you should be engaging in.[/quote]

I like this. And I agree with it.

[/quote]

OP here. Wow, a lot of new comments while I was sleeping (with DH!) and at morning yoga.

I don't agree with the comments that it is cheating when a wife does things she doesn't tell DH about, or she wouldn't do if DH were present. I say things with my sisters and my girlfriends that I wouldn't say in front of DH, and some things I don't tell him about because they're none of his business and I think I'm entitled to some inner life of my own. A few months ago I had jury duty, and they let us out early.  I had a few hours to myself and realized my job and DH assumed I was stuck in the courthouse and unreachable. I went to a bar and drank a glass of wine while I finished the book I brought for jury duty, went to a museum, and then went home at the end of the day. DH asked me how jury duty was, and I said it was the usual day, not mentioning my free afternoon. Was that cheating?[/quote]

No, but you clearly lied by omission. The more you post, the more obvious it becomes that you're playing by a sense of ethics that don't involve honesty. So go ahead and see your second husband; have sex with him! Do what you want, because nothing matters but what feels good.

For anyone else who isn't as deluded as the OP but is seriously considering following her foolish path, do note that the people who make the kinds of decisions the OP is making are the ones who contribute to high divorce and infidelity rates. If you avoid doing nonsense like this and marry someone else who avoids nonsense like this, it's actually quite easy to stay happily married.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics