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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to stay / get back in shape for myself. It's a matter of self respect and maintaining standards. I am currently 7 months PP and still carrying 5 extra lbs compared to my normal weight, but I'll worry about it when I quit nursing (which I'm planning to do when DB turns 1). I don't obsess about it, but I do plan to have more children and I'm 33, so it's not going to get any easier to lose weight if I start letting it creep up.[/quote]

I never understood what a woman's weight or looks had to do with her self respect. So if a woman gains 5-10 pounds, she does not respect herself? So if she gets old and gets wrinkles and a turkey neck she does not respect herself? So all the chubby, older women out there do not respect themselves?

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Who is "a woman"? I was speaking for myself only. Holding myself to certain standards (mentally, physically, and morally) is important to me. This thread is about physical appearance so that's what I'm addressing here. Each person has her own standards. Why don't you pick the things you care about and let others do the same? [/quote]

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