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[quote=Anonymous]OP, we're in a similar boat except my DH does not have a college degree and is a blue collar worker. I never thought of him that way, but he is. I am the breadwinner by far, but I have a very flexible schedule and easy commute. DH isn't even making what your DH is making and he has made the exact same salary for nearly 15 years. He is not valued by his organization or his boss. But his boss leans heavily on him when things don't go right or he needs someone to fix a situation. He leaves for work every day about 4:30 and sometimes doesn't come home until 4 or so. He's a wonderful father and husband and amazing man. He cooks, he helps with cleaning, he fixes things around the house, he picks up DC from school. He is limited in what he can do because he has no degree. He is mid 50s. Before he worked there, he owned restaurants and did quite well, but that is hard, backbreaking work and though I sometimes encourage him to do that again (for the freedom it would give him and possible more money), I'm not sure it's what would be best for our family. So, I don't have any answers really, OP. Just know you're not alone. [/quote]
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