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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I was brutal, but you're one.  Good god.  You are steeped in the victim crap, and it's surreal to say your stbx if that's you would testify to your perfection and you are so effing comfortable attacking people who may have had different (less perfect wives? no doubt.) marriages.  But I'm sure the stbx will pine for you until he dies, miserable and alone.  [/quote]

Dude. Did you even read her post? She never said she was perfect. She said that her ex admitted that she didn't do anything wrong, and that he cheated anyway.

Which is actually textbook. [b]Most people fall into affairs [/b]- they don't go looking for them. It's a crime of opportunity.[/quote]

Yeah right, they accidentally slip in the corridor and fall on someone and what do you know his peepee is in her hooha.

[b]An affair requires many deliberate decisions, and if it's more than a one-night stand, requires a long-term, planned campaign of deception. Don't give me that "just fell into it" bullshit.[/b][/quote]

+100000000[/quote]

It is both. You fall into it because you aren't looking for it. But then once it is in front of you, the possibility of this affair, yes, you make a million different deliberate decisions to facilitate the affair. No, his dick didn't just fall into her vagina, that is just stupid. They make a decision to make that happen. But they fell into it because they weren't expecting to be in that needy place that allows for an affair.
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People on DCUM are naive if they do not think people actively look for affairs.  For many its the hunt that is the real turn on.  Usually one is the hunter one is the "victim".  The one being hunted has not idea of this deception and believes it "just happened" to them.[/quote]

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