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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the "flippant" poster.

So what?

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You and the pp saying they would worry if their kid never got drunk are not normal.  Sorry!  But, the science is in and  teens' brains do not mature until age 25.  They are doing serious damage to their brain, liver, etc.  and you should care.  Sure, once isn't going to make someone an alcoholic but, you build up your tolerance for it and then you need more and more to get drunk.

Because you answered the way you did than your opinion is really meaningless and the op should ignore.[/quote]

Well, when you send young, healthy adults to a university they are going to do what young, healthy adults do.  And sometimes they will go to parties to socialize and there will be alcohol there.  Not cake and ice cream, but alcohol.  These are not HS teenagers being monitored by Mom and Dad anymore.

Infantalizing a 20 year old is more harmful - in my opinion - than allowing that kid to spread his wings, have fun, learn about life a little bit.  Making it illegal for a HS grad to have a freakin' beer is ridiculous.  Insisting that a person isn't really a grown up until they are 25 is sad to me.

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Np here. ^pp must be a kid. Explaining health consequences is not infantilizing, he'll still make his own choices. And brain development ends at age 25, proven, has nothing to do with legal age. I think this ^one fried their brain cells already. [/quote]

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