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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You do not want your wife to know. I cheated on my husband and when he found out it destroyed him. He will never be the same because of my actions. It has also hurt my children in ways I can't describe. It has been over three years of hell. 
You also need to get individual therapy and figure out why you did what you did and work on yourself so that you don't ever cheat again. You may think you won't do it again right now, but you may become vulnerable in the future.[/quote]

PP, I hope you realize that the reason you probably cheated on your husband in the first place wasn't even for the sex.  It was to set up the moment when you knew you were going to look into his eyes and tell him.

And destroy him.  Probably you are very passive aggressive and had lots of resentment to your husband when you had the affair.

What you obviously didn't anticipate isn't just that it destroyed your husband, but hurt your children.

But that's because most cheaters are pretty stupid, but worse than being stupid, they don't think they're stupid.  They think they're smarter than everyone else, but they're not.  That's the worse kind of stupid.[/quote]

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