Reply to I just found out why my DH has been treating me like crap for 3 years

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "I just found out why my DH has been treating me like crap for 3 years"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with the person in shock that it took you two THREE YEARS to talk about this. That is ridiculous.  If DH or I are upset and wait three DAYS to discuss it that's a long time for us.

And honestly, I'm having a hard time buying what you're selling.  Unless he wants things white-glove clean, [b]you should be able to get the house clean each night after the baby is in bed[/b]. I clean as I go but know that's not for everyone. [/quote]

[b]Full time WOHM and I disagree with your statement.  So his day ends when he gets home from work, but she should keep at it and then start cleaning after the baby is in bed?  do you realize how unfair that is?[/quote]

It is unfair. I think every member of the household should clean up after themselves. So, if mom and baby are home, she takes care of their mess. DH takes care of his own when he is home. The house is shared, so everyone pitches in in bathrooms, for example.

Being a SAHP doesn't make you the default cook, either, at least not for the husband.

I didn't know .I don't stay at home, but if I did, I don't see how that also would.make me.my husband's maid and cook and. You're supposed to be there to parent, right?

I love what you just wrote!  It is hard to keep things picked up when you have people who drop everything.  I don't want to be a slave to the house so therefore I have learned to care less since I can't do it by myself ( not enough hours in the day)
Every member of the household should participate in househd chores and parenting, even if one stays home. That's how I see it anyway[/quote][/b][/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics