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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well for me - as a male - I was refused so much for so long that I just gave up.  After going weeks and at one time months, I had an affair.

The affair went on for a few months and I had lots of sex, but the stress of lying and stuff caught up to me.  I'm in my 40s now and don't care as much and honestly want to be left alone.  Now she has all the drive but I'm no longer interested for a couple of reasons.

1. The sex with her is boring my comparison to the AP I had
2 after years of rejection, I honestly feel little attraction.  She has her wi Dow of opportunity for passionate sex and turned it down.

Plus she's gained a bit of weight.  Hardly attractive [/quote]

I was in your shoes.  Rejected sexually by wife, then had hot affair sex, then broke off affair because sneaking around became exhausting, then no desire for wife once she started initiating.  Here's the thing.  Assuming you have children and want to keep the family home intact, you need to find a way to reconnect sexually with your wife.  The same advice for women is good for men.  Just do it.  I bit the bullet, we have a good sex life now and a happy marriage.[/quote]

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