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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like a boss! Just make sure you have outside support. Your finances are ok. Don't make it seem like it affects you. Carry on like it's nothing. [/quote]

I understand this, but it all feels false.  I worry the kids will have a wonderful holiday, and then boom, their world gets turned upside down.  I haven't even thought about me yet.  My finances are in order, and I have a separate account and all important documents photocopied in a safe place.

Damn [/quote]

Their world does not have to turn upside down.  Hell, my dad walked out on on Thanksgiving Day.  Do I remember this?  Nope.  Do I remember all of the weekends he never showed up to take us for visitation?  Nope.  Why?  Because my mother was awesome and wouldn't let us dwell on it.  She would take us to McDonald's as a special treat on those Friday nights when he was a no-show.  We were struggling financially so that was a huge treat.  After a few weekends of this, she stopped telling us he was coming at all.  I grew up with everything I needed from her.  So however it goes down, your children don't have to be ruined by it.  My mom never bad mouthed my dad in front of us.  I know she grinned and bearded it until we came to our own conclusions that he was kind of a loser.  Hang in there.[/quote]

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