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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looks matter in whether we are attracted to someone. Not all dramatic changes in appearance are for the better. If OP loves his fiancées black hair but she has now bleached it out, that will change the way she looks dramatically and he is entitled to an opinion about it. That doesn't make him shallow.

The beard thread should be full of posts saying it's ok for husbands or boyfriends to grow beards, even if they look bad. I'm betting a lot of posters here have made regrettable hair decisions st some point and are feeling defensive![/quote]

I am op of the beard thread.  I wrote it 1) because it is true, and 2) because I found the answers here to be horrid.  I figured it would be sexist -- basically, I need to bend over backward to make my wife attracted....

DCUM did not disappoint.[/quote]

Beard thread OP- It's been pointed out multiple times on your thread that growing a beard is not the same as changing your hair color. Growing facial hair=growing facial hair. Changing hair color/haircut=changing hair color/haircut. If you changed your hair color and your wife complained, then it would be similar situations.[/quote]

Wow, you're really dense. It's not like saying she changed her hair and he changed his job. They are both significant physical appearance traits that contribute to overal physical attractiveness. You're really desperate here. [/quote]

Yes, they are both physical appearance traits. But they are not equivalent because their effects are not the same. My dh changing his hair color would not affect how I physically interact with him. So even if I didn't like it, I would be happy as long as he's happy. However, a beard will irritate my skin when I kiss or hug him. My dh growing a beard directly affects me but changing his hair color does not.[/quote]

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