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Reply to "How do I let my fiancée know she made a terrible mistake with her hair?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looks matter in whether we are attracted to someone. Not all dramatic changes in appearance are for the better. If OP loves his fiancées black hair but she has now bleached it out, that will change the way she looks dramatically and he is entitled to an opinion about it. That doesn't make him shallow. The beard thread should be full of posts saying it's ok for husbands or boyfriends to grow beards, even if they look bad. I'm betting a lot of posters here have made regrettable hair decisions st some point and are feeling defensive![/quote] That is shallowness by definition. When I met my husband he had a head full of beautiful curls that I loved. He got cancer 4 years ago and thanks to treatment they all fell out and haven't grown back. His hair isn't and won't be the same. I still love him. Still find him wildly attractive and wouldn't dream of anything else [/quote] You are actually trying to draw a comparison between a spouse losing their hair as a result of cancer which could kill them, and a CHOICE of a new hair color? [/quote]
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